Do you remember the Swiss trucks driving around that say “You can’t say ‘Swiss’ without a smile?” This is because of the way our facial muscles move to form the “s” sibilance.
In an effort to cope with phone calls, a weakness of mine, I have developed a bit of a strategy based upon my (unscientific) testing and trial. Not only do I have a mental script that I adhere to, but I have found that I always get a varied, yet great, reaction out of folks when my answer to “How are you?” is “Fabulous!“
The answer is unexpected; therefore, it is disarming. This causes the other party to relax a bit (it breaks the ice), state how they are doing, and ask if I really am really fabulous. I am then able to proceed with the call in friendly manner, having already established a rapport.
Office Manager Tip: When answering "How are you?" say "Fabulous!" You can't say it without smiling, thus raising the pitch of your voice.
— Riggins Construction (@RigginsConst) August 30, 2010
You may wonder why this tip is even remotely relevant. Consider the following quote from Christine Knott’s article “How to use vocal pitch and pace on the phone” (2/25/09):
Put into percentage terms it equates to 7 per cent words, 38 per cent vocal characteristics, and 55 per cent body language. This means that over half the message is transferred by our body actions and facial expressions, which are viewed in order to receive the content of the message.
When the transmission of our message relies solely on our voice, as in a phone call, there is a maximum of 45% communication resources available–less than half. Continue reading


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